India...a perspective from an Indian
I am an NRI. Thats what they call
Non Resident Indians. But the last time I had a friendly verbal exchange with the Indian scholars in VJC, they were quick to suggest that it also meant Non Returning Indians.But thats not true. No matter where we are , India is always on the back of our mind. Thats party why I try to conquer India when I play the board game RISK. But thats besides the point. It is dirty, crowded, not organised...but still we keep going back. There is this attraction for our mother land.
Those who reside in India hardly want to migrate out. Even Shah Rukh Khan. He lives in Mumbai...despite the fact he could easily stay in other bigger cities. He once said,"Why be a slave elsewhere, when I can be the king here." Thats the thing. The rich are rich and the poor are really poor. And they live in perfect harmony. You see the beggars outside the homes of the rich. You see the rich travelling thru the slums to get to a certain destination.
The Indians know that their country is dirty. They dont deny that. Someone once jokingly told me that Singapore is so clean, that when the Indians come over, they fall sick. He also added that if you dont litter in India, the police will fine you. They find ways to weave around comments regarding their country.
Corruption is everywhere. Not doubt this is bad and should not be condoned, we need to put overselves into their shoes. For example, the police officers would let you off if you paid them a sum of money. First of all their salary sucks and there is a crap amount of paper work.
I dont know about other races but the key to a foreign Indians survival holds a simple theory. Behave as Indian as possible. Behave as if although you have been staying out from India, you still have the tradition and what not. Know your Gods well because they always make good ice breakers with the shop owners and the auto taxis.
I am going Bangalore soon for 2 months. I am looking forward to it in many aspects apart from holidaying. I have never been to the South of India before. North and South is vastly different. They even have their own movie industry spoof called Kollywood. I have always been to India with my parents. I have observed how they interact with people and i want to put that into practice. From the bargaining of taxi fares... to rejecting badly cooked food.
till the next time,
pinakin
Tree Top Trial
well..it's supposed to be an adventourous day, exciting..but IN THE END..it's really very exciting...heh
bin von met ling at 8.45am..ready to challenge the tree top trail at macritchie...well..all started well...as we reached Mr Lim Bo Seng's Tombstone. It really looked very nice..after that we continued our hike..i realised ling is also NYHA grade 3..haha...i'm not any better..maybe NYHA grade 2...anyway...we found out that we have to walk 5 km to reach the trail..so we continued...suddenly...we felt droplets...and soon it became MANY droplets..and guess wat..only dear von brought her small red umbrella...and ling only brought her white nike cap...haha...so we got stuck at this junction...3 pathetic people holding a red umbrella hoping that the rain will stop...well...it didn't...sigh...and in the end we had to run out of that place...and the most funny thing is...we saw this sign when we were about to reach Lornie Rd.."Tree Top Trail", 2.5km away, closed on MONDAY and public holidays..oh yes..how interesting..today is 04/04/05 MONDAY! sigh..wat an interesting end to our hike..
in the end von went home and ling had to go to my house to change coz we were all wet...sigh...and we shivered in the bus...sigh...
was talking to ling bout having a cooking session..haha..hopefully wendy is free on wed...=)
wat a day.....
6 more days to Bangalore..oh yeah..so exciting!